Question:
Because of my size i don’t feel desirable, and feel that i am too big to be suspended by my partner. There are things that i would like to try on the kink side of things but afraid to take the leap. Do you have anything that might help change this feeling?
sammy
Hi sammy,
Everyone has feelings of inadequacies in their lives especially with their bodies and the size of some of their appendages. With women it’s our breasts or our weight; with men it’s their penis size and amazingly for some the size of their “men-breasts”. The most important thing to realize and work on is releasing the negative beliefs you have about yourself in order to gain confidence and self-acceptance. Nope this isn’t easy. But here’s a way to start: Take a few classes; do a little therapy; and do some work with NLP/hypnosis to let go some of the negative thinking that’s holding back your life. If not now, when? If you can’t find a therapist you like in your area, I provide counseling and consultation over the phone/internet since many of my patients are outside NYC.
Remember, you are loved and cared for by your partner even if you can’t do it completely for yourself-yet!
As for suspension, I would discuss that with a Rope Expert; a few modifications might just be the answer you need and I’d love to see the pictures. smiles I’ve got a great picture of a BBW on my website www.bdsmthenakedtruth.com in the links section taken by Captured Erotic. Never forget we are beautiful in all our sizes!
Live with passion,
Doctor Charley...
