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2012:
Submissive who is having problems with alcohol and drug abuse.(Lady Stacy)
Dear Doctor Charley,
I care for a submissive who is having problems with alcohol and drug abuse. We haven’t started dating yet but have teased and flirted with each other a few times. He’s talked about needing help and having someone he can rely on and talk to yet I’m not sure I can be all he needs and I think maybe staying away from him is best. What do you recommend in this type of situation?
Lady Stacy.
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BDSM "must be damaged people" or must be working out traumas.(P’Gell)
I hear so many people say that those of us who participate in rough play or BDSM "must be damaged people" or must be working out traumas etc. Many people have had sexual trauma, but in my opinion, it doesn't necessarily translate into rough play or BDSM for all. Nor have all who are into rough play necessarily experienced trauma, but so many think they are related.
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Feel that i am too big to be suspended by my partner.(sammy)
Question:
Because of my size i don’t feel desirable, and feel that i am too big to be suspended by my partner. There are things that i would like to try on the kink side of things but afraid to take the leap. Do you have anything that might help change this feeling?
sammy.
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